I don’t care if someone’s non-essential pet doctrine is pro or con:

Once saved always saved;

Calvinism vs Arminianism; or

Some particular end time timeline.

It’s not that I don’t have my own views. I do.

And it’s not that I’m never willing to talk about them. I am.

But when someone is always making everything about their own non-essential theological fixations, rather than learning to humbly prefer each other above ourselves …

Then they’re not yet ready for relational participatory church like commanded in the New Testament, where we gather for the mutual edification and building up of one another.

In fact, they shouldn’t even try.

They’ll only do more harm than good.