Helping victims over many years has taught me some important facts:

Sexually exploitive church leaders often come across as the most charming, engaging and gifted people you’ll ever meet.

After all, how do you think they kept getting away with it?

Plus, it’s a sure sign you’re dealing with a narcissistic predator when their regrets are all about the effects of their sins on them …

Rather than the sin itself and its effects on others.